According to a study by AAA, accidents increase after 
the age of 65, and fatal accidents, in
particular, are more likely to occur after 75. For the sake of both the aging driver and others on the road, it is paramount that you sit down now and discuss what to do if and when it’s time for a member of the family to put down the keys, and who will be in charge of leading that talk.
When to give up the keys is a tough conversation. Family members struggle to determine whose “place” it is to say something. But in the same way that you would plan for your estate, it’s also a good idea to plan for this type of situation.
Advanced Driving Directive
To help your family figure out a plan, you can use an advance driving directive. The purpose of this document is for the driver to name the person that he/she wants to initiate the discussion about whether to continue driving or not when the time is right.
This document may sound like a medical power of attorney, which transfers the actual decision-making powers. But an advance driving directive document does not appoint anyone to make the final “cease-driving” decision for the driver. Instead, this paper names someone whom the driver would like to have broach this touchy subject.
Whom to Choose
For some that could be a spouse, sibling, adult child or a long-time friend. While it’s important to note that an advance driving directive has no actual legal significance, and isn’t likely to be enforceable in court, it can be extremely useful and makes an awkward conversation that much easier.
What to Include
Before anyone starts handing over car keys, it’s important that an advanced driving directive spells out clearly all the driver’s wishes so loved ones can do their best to help. Here are a few things to consider including:
- Ask that all other available options are explored before taking your keys.
- Make it clear you want to maintain your mobility once you can no longer drive.
- Should you have problems coping with your loss of mobility ask your loved ones for help in finding a qualified therapist to help you deal with your pain.
- Most importantly, be sure they know whom you want to address these issues with you, when and if the time comes.
At Kelly and West, we pride ourselves on protecting you and what you hold dear. Helping you plan for driving in your advanced years is part of that mission. Use this helpful Advanced Driving Directive template to prepare, or contact us for more help.
